Resource Directory

Santa Fe Police Department-Non-Emergency 955-5080

Santa FePublic Health Office 827-3560

Santa FeRape Crisis Center 986-9111

Santa Fe Public Schools – Student Wellness 954-2523

Santa Fe Public Schools - ¡Adelante! 467-2571

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Youth Shelters and Family Services

CommunityCounseling Center 983-0586

La Otra Puerta Emergency Shelter 471-4706

Alcohol and Other Drugs

El Alcohol y Otras Drogas

Today, everyone is exposed to the temptation to try alcoholorotherdrugs. This comes in many different ways such aspeerpressure,experimentation, escape from problems, even sheer boredom.Ifyou do decide toexperiment with drugs and alcohol here aresomeguidelines you may findhelpful.

--Be in a safe, healthy environment with people you trust.

--Make a contract with yourself concerning what you will andwill not do.

--Know your limits.

--If you start having a bad reaction, tell someone youtrust.

--Never put yourself in a place where physical or mentalharm could come to you.

Your brain is acting on a different level and something thatseemstobe fun at the time could well be something that you would neverdoifyou were sober. Drugs are very powerful, and if you use them inthewrong wayyou could seriously hurt yourself or others. Some ofthedangers includeaddiction, overdose, accidents, physicalillness,failure in school, mental andemotional problems, loss of yourdriver’slicense, loss of your car, expensivefines, jail, loss ofeligibilityfor certain jobs and the military, and worstof all….DEATH!

If you think you are going beyond your boundaries becauseofalcoholand other drugs, it would serve you well to go for an extendedperiodoftime without the drug. During this time, think about whatyou’ve beendoingsince you started using drugs. Are you truly enjoyingyourself andfeeling goodabout your choices in life? If you are notfeeling goodabout what you aredoing it is time to stop using drugsand/or alcohol.

There are many organizations and people dedicated tohelpingkidsbegin a drug-free life. Talk to your parent, school teacherorcounselorabout ways to get help. After all, it is only a drug andyouare more powerfulthan any drug you take into your body.

Overdoses,Withdrawal, and Bad Trips

If someone is doing drugs and passes out or losesconsciousness,donot try to treat them yourself. You are not a professionaland itcouldbe a life or death situation. Call911 immediately. Theywilltell you what to do. Keep in mind most hospitalskeep theirservicesconfidential, so do not hesitate to go to an emergencyroom. Your friend’s life may depend onyour decisions.

NUMBERS TO CALL FOR PREVENTION, TREATMENT AND EDUCATION:

AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) 982-8932

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Cocaine Anonymous 984-7207

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

toll free 1-888-920-6333

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

Narcotics Anonymous 984-2098

PartySmart (Northern New MexicoDanceSafe) (505) 672-4063

www.PartySmart.org

Santa Fe CountyYouth Development 473-4154

Santa FeFamily Center 473-2283

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

Santa Fe Police Department – Non-emergency 955-5080

Santa Fe Public Schools – Student Wellness 954-2523

Santa Fe Tobacco-Free Schools Program 954-2573

TeenCourt ofSanta Fe County 955-5132 or

955-5157

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

YouthWorks 989-1855

Youth Shelters and Family Services

CommunityCounseling Center 983-0586

Community Service

El Servicio de la Comunidad

Community Service work is a good way to help your community,learnnewinformation and skills, meet new people, and get prepared forpaidwork.

You can use the Santa Fe Community Resources Directory tofindanorganization where you can volunteer your time. This book canbefoundin your school library or the city library. Ask aboutagerequirements andlocation. Think about whether the times they wantyouto volunteer fit intoyour schedule. Think about transportation, andifprior training is required.

ORGANIZATIONS WHERE YOU CAN DO COMMUNITY SERVICE:

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Center for Contemporary Arts 982-1338

Center for Service Learning

Opportunitiesin Education 988-1724

City of Santa Fe

MonicaRoybal Center 955-6751

Teen Center 955-6860

Challenge NewMexico 988-7621

EarthWalk for Health 988-4157

Hands on Community Art 955-9768

Los Amigos Leadership Clubs (SF Public Schools) 954-2526

National Dance Institute 983-7646

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

PartySmart (Northern New MexicoDanceSafe) (505) 672-4063

www.PartySmart.org

Sangre de CristoService LearningCenter 986-9774

Sangre de Cristo Girl Scouts 983-6339

Santa FeBoys & Girls Clubs 983-6632

Santa Fe Children’s Museum 989-8359

Santa FeFamily YMCA 424-8077

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

Santa FeRape Crisis & 988-1951or

Trauma Treatment Center (800) 721- RAPE or (800) 721 -7273

TeenCourt ofSanta Fe County 955-5132or

955-5157

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Warehouse 21 – SantaFe Teen Art Center 989-4423

YouthWorks 989-1855

Conflict Resolution / Mediation

Opongase la Resolucion/Mediacion

Sometimes people just don’t get along. It could be for allkindsofreasons. When this happens sometimes people try to avoidthesituationor person. But there are times when you just can’t do thatifthe conflict iswith your parents, a teacher, your boss at work,orsomeone at school. In thosesituations it can be helpful to havesomeoneneutral from the outside help thetwo of you work out yourproblems.These people can even teach you ways to dothis on your own.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

toll free 1-888-920-6333

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

www.sfps.k12.nm.us/ejmartinez/cwk.html

Santa Fe Public Schools – Student Wellness 954-2523

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

YouthWorks 989-1855

Counseling/Support Groups

Aconsejar y Apoyo Agrupan

If you are often confused about the way you feel you maywanttoconsider seeing a counselor. Counselors are known to begoodlisteners,and they can guide you as you sort through your problems.Youwill understandyourself better and learn ways to deal withwhateverlife sends your way. Manytimes you will find just talking toacounselor can make you more aware of whyyou feel the way you do. Ifyouare concerned about talking to a counselorabout your problemsorfeelings because you are afraid someone else may findout, this willnothappen. It is called confidentiality. Only in emergencysituationwoulda counselor need to report something you said to someone elseandyourcounselor will explain those situations to you before youbeginyoursession together. You can talk to your counselor about griefandloss, yourparents being separated, going through a divorce,beingremarried, or anythingyou feel you need to talk about.

There are many places to go for counseling. When you callyoumightask them about confidentiality, the need for parentalpermission,howmuch it costs, and how to make an appointment.

Support groups are like counseling except you meet regularlywithacounselor and other people who share common experiences.Discussingyourfeelings and concerns with people who share similarexperienceshelps you seethat you are not alone in what you are feelingorexperiencing. You can providecomfort and encouragement for oneanother.

Support groups and counselors are out there for you but youmustwantto go to them for help. For assistance in finding a supportgrouporcounselor, talk to your teacher or school counselor.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Esperanza Shelter for Battered Families 473-5200

Gerard’s House 424-1800

www.gerardshouse.org

MOSAIC (Moses & Associates) 471-6633

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

Santa FeCommunity Guidance Center 986-9633

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Santa FeFamily Center 473-2283

Santa Fe Public Schools

StudentWellness 954-2523

SchoolCounselor # of your school

Santa FeRape Crisis Center 986-9111

TeenCourt ofSanta Fe County 955-5132or

955-5157

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Women’s Health Services Family Care & 988-8869

Counseling Center www.womenshealthsantafe.org

YouthWorks 989-1855

Youth Shelters and Family Services 983-0586

Eating Disorders

Los Desordenes que Comen

Many young people are concerned about their weightandappearance.Sometimes this concern can lead to an obsession withfood. Ifthisobsession is not controlled, it can develop into aneatingdisorder. There arethree major eating disorders: Anorexia,Bulimia, andCompulsive Overeating.Anorexia is when people restricttheir diet tolose weight and becomesextremely thin. Bulimia is whenpeople binge onfood and later purge the foodthrough vomiting,laxatives, or excessiveexercise. Compulsive overeating iswhen a personeats uncontrollably inlarge amounts. People with eatingdisorders are ina lot of pan and soare their families and friends. Talk to acounselorif you think you ora friend or family member has an eating disorder.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

Overeaters Anonymous 984-1315

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Women’s Health Services Family Care & 988-8869

Counseling Center www.womenshealthsantafe.org

Education

Educacion

Getting an education is one of the most important things youcan doinyour lifetime. Staying in school and graduating is the best waytoreachyour goals and keep your options open. But problems do ariseandeventscan happen in your life that make staying in school seemverydifficult orimpossible. You really don’t have to give up! Talk toyourparents, otherfamily members, a teacher or counselor at yourschool, orto a friend. Thereare many services that can help youcontinue orfinish your education.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Center for Service Learning

Opportunities in Education 988-1724

Cooking with Kids 473-4703

Fine Arts for Children & Teens 992-2787

Gerard’s House 424-1800

www.gerardshouse.org

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project 989-1855

One-Stop Youth CareerCenter 827-7434Randall Davey AudubonCenter983-4609

www.audubon.org

Santa FeBoys & Girls Clubs 983-6632

Santa Fe Children’s Museum 989-8359

www.ci.santa-fe.nm.us/sfpl

Santa FeCommunity College GEDCertification 428-1356

Santa FePartners in Education 474-0240

Santa FePerforming Arts 982-7992

Santa FePublic Library 955-6781

Santa Fe Public Schools Student/Parent Services 954-2026

Santa FeRape Crisis Center 986-9111

SER, Santa FeJobs for Progress, Inc. 473-0428

TeenCourt ofSanta Fe County 955-5132or

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

YouthWorks 989-1855

Employment

Ayuda Para Conseguir Empleo

When you begin to look for a paying job, remember you willbebuildinga work record. Some qualities, such as being dependable and ontimeanddoing a good job are important. Most employers require a workpermit ifyouare under 16 years of age. Age certificates are issued onrequest tothose 16and older for employers as proof of age. The federallawprohibits 14 and 15year olds from working more than 3 hours on aschoolday, more than 18 hours ina school week, more than 8 hours onanon-school day, and more than 40 hours ina non-school week. You maynotbegin before 7 a.m. and must end by 7 p.m.; except from June 1throughLabor Day, when eveninghours are extended to 9 p.m.

Social Security Card

A Social Security Card can be obtained at the localSocialSecurityoffice. You need to fill out an application in order toobtain aSocialSecurity number. Take your birth certificate and anotherpieceofidentification (passport, school report card, etc.). You cancall theSocialSecurity Office at 473-3707 if you are not sure.

Work Permit

Work Permits can be obtained from your school counselor orthe employment agency in your county.

References

You need to find two or three people who know you andyourabilities.Check with them to make sure you can list them as areference.Knowtheir job titles, addresses, and phone numbers. You canuseteachers,counselors, former employers, and other adults, butnotrelatives. Take a listwith all the information you need when you gotoapply for a job.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Social Security Administration 473-3707

General Information tollfree 1-800-772-1213

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Institute for Intercultural Community

Leadership-SFCC Youth Leadership Initiative 428-1637

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

One-Stop Youth Career Center 954-2417

Santa FeBoys & Girls Clubs 983-6632

Santa Fe Children’s Museum 989-8359

www.sfps.k12.nm.us/ejmartinez/cwk.html

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Santa Fe Education & Apprenticeship Network, Inc. 474-9000

Santa FeFamily YMCA 424-8077

SER, Santa FeJobs for Progress, Inc. 473-0428

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Warehouse 21 – SantaFe Teen Art Center 989-4423

YouthWorks 989-1855

Food, Clothing & Shelter

Alimento, la Ropa & el Refugio

Sometimes families can have a hard time making ends meet.Iffood,clothes, and shelter are a struggle to get right now, therearedifferentplaces right here in Santa Fethat can help you.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Bienvenidos Outreach Inc. 986-0583

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Cooking with Kids 473-4703

Esperanza Shelter for Battered Families 473-5200

Food Depot 471-1633

Goodwill Industries 983-7156or

424-9726

Kitchen Angels 471-7780

Open Hands 428-2320

Salvation Army 988-8054

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Youth Shelters and Family Services 983-0586

Law & You

La Ley & Usted

Pranks

Though they may not seem serious, pranks such assprayinggraffiti,damaging mail boxes, and pulling fire alarms arecriminalacts.Pranksters are punished by the law.

Theft

Shoplifting and stealing have been temptations for manypeople atsomepoint in their lives. Please think twice about taking thingsthatare notyours without asking permission. If you are caught stealing,youwill bearrested. We all are affected when one of us steals.

Alcohol

It is against the law for anyone under the age of 21 topurchaseordrink alcohol. If you are caught serving or selling alcohol toaminor,you can be arrested.

Drug Laws

The possession, selling, or use of any kind or quantityofillegaldrug is against the law. Drinking alcohol under the age of 21isagainstthe law. The penalties for offenses involving drugs suchasmarijuana,cocaine, speed, crack, heroin, LSD, or underage drinkingcanbe very harsh. Theselling of any illegal drug is a veryseriousoffense. It is against the law todrive under the influence ofanillegal drug or alcohol.

Alcohol and Other Drugs and Driving

The statistics of fatal car accidents involvingdrugs,includingalcohol, are so high that it is out of control. When youare undertheinfluence of any drug, including alcohol, your ability todrive safelyisgreatly reduced. The following consequences can beexpected if youare caughtwith, or if you are driving under theinfluence of alcohol orother drugs(DWI):

• Loss ofdriver’s license.

• Impounding ofcar.

• Loss ofeligibility for certain jobs and the military.

• JAIL.

• Fine of $300 ormore.

If you are under the influence of any drug, includingalcohol, DO NOT DRIVE!!! You couldlose your life or take someone else’s life. It is not a joke. “Friends don’tlet friends drive drunk.”

Traffic Offenses

Traffic offenses come before the appropriate Court for anykindoftraffic violation. Sometimes you could be arrested fortrafficoffenses.The consequences for most traffic offenses areappearing in courtandfines. The following are some examples of trafficoffenses:

• Driving withouta license

• Driving whileintoxicated or impaired by alcohol or other drugs

• Recklessdriving, exceeding the speed limit

• Not stopping ata stop sign

• Running a redlight

• Not stoppingand identifying yourself at an accident, or failure to report an accident

What To Do In Case of a Car Accident

Do not panic! Do not run away from the scene of an accident– thatisa Crime! Call the police. Drivers of the cars involvedandeyewitnessesshould exchange the following information:

• Names andAddresses

• Phone Numbers

• Names ofInsurance Companies

• Driver’sLicense Numbers

• License PlateNumbers

If the driver that hits you leaves the scene, call thepolice and make a report.

Search Warrants

A search warrant is a paper signed by a judge givingpermissiontosearch a house, car, store, locker, or other property.Sometimes thepolicecan search without a search warrant. These instancesare thefollowing:

• If there isreason to believe a person has broken or is about to break the law

• If a car is believedto have been involved in a crime

• If a persongives permission for the search

• If the policeare searching for a dangerous person

• If an arresthas been made, a search will be made to locate any weapons and assure evidence will not bedestroyed

Arrest

If you or someone you’re with are stopped by police, youhave thesamerights an adult has. If this happens, remember the following:

• Do not resistarrest

• You do not needto say anything or answer questions without your parents present and

advice from anattorney

• Give your name,address, phone, and date of birth. You do not need to volunteer any

other information

• You have theright to a lawyer. If you can’t afford one, the court will appoint one for

you

• Ask police tocall your parents or other adults

DO NOT SIGN ANYTHINGWITHOUT PARENTS OR AN ATTORNEY PRESENT!!!

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Catholic Charities of SantaFe Immigration Advocacy 424-9789

Crime Stoppers 955-5050

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

Juvenile Justice Division/Juvenile Probation

Parole Office 827-7310

Northern New Mexico LegalServices 982-9886

Santa Fe Police Department

Non-emergency 955-5080

General Information 955-5033

State Bar of NewMexico Statewide Lawyer

Referral Service 1-800-876-6657

www.nmbar.org

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Mentoring

Big Brothers/Big Sisters of Northern NM 983-8360

www.BBBSNorthernNM.org

Mentoring NewMexico 988-1611

www.MentoringNewMexico.org

Parenting/Child Care

After-school & Summer

Actuar Como Padre/El Cuidado de Nino

If it is your first time parenting and you need help oradviceonparenting, there are places to call and people to talk to.Don’tthinkyou are a bad parent if you need help or advice. You’re abetterparentif you get help and advice. Every new parent can learn fromanexperienced one.

If you need to find good child care, there are places togiveyouinformation on what to look for and where to go. If you needhelppayingfor child care, there are also places that will help you ,ifyouqualify.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Catholic Charities of SantaFe Immigration Advocacy 424-9789

Girl’s Inc. 982-2042

www.girlsincofsantafe.com

Head Start 982-4484

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

Santa Fe County HealthOffice WIC 827-3560

(Women, Infants & Children) 827-3576

Santa FeFamily Center 473-2283

Santa FeFamily YMCA 424-8077

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

SER, Santa FeJobs for Progress, Inc. 473-0428

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Youth Shelters and Family Services 983-0586

Pregnancy

El Embarazo

If you are sexually active or if you just wonder about sex,youneedto learn about safe sex. If you need information aboutteenpregnancy,if you think you may be pregnant, or you just havequestionsabout sex, you canget it on your own and for free. The lawallows youto do this without yourparents being notified, but it’s agood idea toinvolve your parents if youcan. Remember that it is OK tobring along afriend if you think they will helpyou.

These programs can give you not only information but anyservicesyoumay need, such as HIV and sexually transmitted disease (STD)testsandtreatment, condoms, other forms of birth control, and familyplanning.

Also remember some of the home pregnancy tests are notaccurate.Youmay need direct medical attention if you think you or oneofyourfriends may be pregnant.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Catholic Charities of SantaFe Immigration Advocacy 424-9789

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

Santa Fe County HealthOffice 827-3560

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

SER, Santa FeJobs for Progress, Inc. 473-0428

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Women’s Health Services Family Care & 988-8869

CounselingCenter www.womenshealthsantafe.org

Youth Shelters and Family Services 983-0586

Rape

Violacion

Rape is sexual contact that is forced or coerced,verballyorphysically. This includes oral, anal, or vaginal penetration byapenis, finger, or object against the will of the victim. Themajorityof rapes are committed by men against woman, although men havealsobeen victims of rape. 60-70% of all rapes occur between people whoknowone another.

Date Rape

You and your partner must decide what each of you wants andwhatyou’re willing to do physically. Lack of communication inarelationship is where rape begins. If you are in a situation whereyoufeel uncomfortable, say something and be sure your partner listensandfully understands what you do want to do, and what you do not wanttodo. If you are uncomfortable withthe idea of having sex, try tostayaway from situations that might allow something to happen. Alcoholandother drugs are sometimes a factor in date rape. Many victims saytheydrank too much or took too many drugs to realize what washappening.Sexwith a person who is too drunk to consent is rape, even ifyou knowthe person and have had sex with them before.

Rape in Your Home

Children and teenagers are being sexually assaulted and raped athomeevery day. Many are too young to realize that it isn’t right ornormal,and that they can do something to stop it. Some receive harmfulthreatsby their molester and are too afraid to talk to someone.

RAPE IS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

Rape is a crime of violence, not sex. It is aboutcontrol.Injuriescan be psychological, physical or both. Having feelingsof anger, fear,shame, guilt, and sadness is a normal reaction tosexualviolence.

Having Trouble sleeping, eating, and relatingtopeoplearoundyou(including your family) are also common effectsofrape.Otherreactionsmay include flashbacks, loss of trust,sexualissues,difficultieswithrelationships, and substance abuse. Theeffectsof arape can lastweeks,months, or even years.

The fact is that someone gets raped every twominutes.Rapecanhappento anyone, no matter how aware or educated youare. Ifyouhavebeenraped or are being raped, don’t be a silent victim. Tell someone you trust. Many cases of rape go unreported.

What To Do If You Have Been Raped

Call a friend or a family member, this is no time to bealone. Then…
Call the police, and your local sexual assault center.
It is important to tell the police so that your legalrights and the safety of others can be protected.
Get medical attention. Do not shower or clean yourselfbefore getting the medical treatment, because evidence taken during ahospital’s rape exam can be invaluable should you press charges.
Consider whether you want to press charges with thepolice.
Get help and support, such as a counselor. Remember youhave been through something very traumatic.
People who receive help get over their experiencesfaster and with fewer lasting effects than those who don’t receive help.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Santa FeRape Crisis & 988-1951or

Trauma Treatment Center (800) 721- RAPE or (800) 721 -7273

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

www.girlsincofsantafe.com

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Youth Shelters and Family Services

CommunityCounseling Center 983-0586

Running Away

Escapar de la Casa

Lots of kids think about running away from home. You mayfeel thiswaybecause of things that are not going so easily in your life thatcanleadto stress, and make you feel that running away is the onlysolution.Ifyou are considering running away (or you already have),think about whyyouwant to do this and consider these consequences. Howare you going toget food?Where are you going to stay? How are yougoing to keep clean?You may beputting yourself into a dangeroussituation where you could behurt.

Find someone that you trust to talk to such as a counselor,ateacher,a relative, or a friend. Talking to someone about how you feelcanmakeyou feel better. Think about talking to your parents first butifhomeisn’t a safe place here are some other alternatives.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Bienvenidos Outreach Inc. 986-0583

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

National Runaway Hotline 1-800-621-4000

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

Youth Shelters and Family Services

CommunityCounseling Center 983-0586

Transitional Living Program 438-3762

La Otra Puerta Emergency Shelter 471-4706

Sex & Sexuality

El Sexo y La Sexualidad

Think about the things that go into making a goodrelationshipbesides sex. There are many levels of touching andaffection, andemotional attachment is important. Each relationshipinvolves a uniquecombination of the emotional and physical. Theimportant thing toremember isto make your own decisions withoutcompromising your valuesor being influencedby others.

Sometimes people talk about “scoring” as though sex is a contest.Butit is not, and it is just as natural for a person to not wanttohave sexas it is for another person to want to have sex. Don’t worryabout whatother people are doing. Be honest with you own feelings. Abig part ofbecoming your own person is doing what is right for you nomatter whatothers think.

Here are some things to ask yourself if you are consideringhaving sex:

- Am I willing to talk openly about sex?

- Am I doing it because I want to or because someone else thinks I should?

- Do I think that this is the only way to keep my boyfriend or girlfriend?

- Will I be able to handle it if this relationship doesn’t work out?

- Am I just trying to cure loneliness or unhappiness?

- Am I considering how the other person feels?

- Am I prepared to accept the consequences of my actions,such as pregnancy or sexually

transmitted diseases?

Sexual Orientation

As a teenager living in a world where being different isfrownedupon, growing up can be especially difficult if you think youmightbegay, lesbian, bi-sexual, or transgendered. If you are,that’sperfectly allright. The important thing to remember is for you tofeelgood about yourselfno matter what you discover. Talk to someoneyoutrust. There are people totalk to and places yo can go where youwon’tfeel misunderstood.

Contraception

Contraception is the responsibility of both partners. If youchoosetous contraception, it is wise to discuss various methods withahealthcare counselor. Once you are having sex, it is important tohaveregularexaminations. When calling for an appointment, you shouldaskwhether there isan adolescent service available.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Girl’s Inc. 982-2042

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

People of Color AIDS Foundation - Youth

Outreach Project for Life 474-7602

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Women’s Health Services Family Care & 988-8869

CounselingCenter www.womenshealthsantafe.org

STD’S

Enfermedades Sexualmente Transmitidas

Sexually transmitted diseases (STD”S) are everywhere. Anestimated3million teens catch some form of an STD every year. If youaresexuallyactive, you are putting yourself at risk for diseasedlikeChlamydia,Genital warts, Genital herpes, Gonorrhea, HepatitisB,Trichomoniasis, andHIV/AIDS.

Chlamydia is a genital infection you get from bacteria. It’sthemostcommon reported infectious disease in the United States. Genitalwartsis avirus that infects the genitals. There are more than 60knowntypes. GenitalHerpes is a recurrent skin condition caused by avirus.Gonorrhea is abacterial infection that invades the genital andurinaryorgans. Hepatitis B isa virus that inflames the liver.Trichomoniasisis an infection caused by a parasitethat attacks thegenitals. AIDS(Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome) is causedby the HIVvirus whichis passed sexually through blood, blood products, orbodilyfluids andby the use of contaminated or unsterilized needles. Thisvirusattacksyour body’s defense system, which fights off disease. Forsomeonewhohas AIDS, a simple infection can lead to death. A cure hasnot beendiscovered for this disease.

The most effective way to prevent these diseases issimplyabstainingfrom sex and not using drugs and needles. If you aresexually activeyoushould talk to a counselor, school counselor,physician, or othertrustedadults about forms of protection.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

People of Color AIDS Foundation - Youth

Outreach Project for Life 474-7602

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

Santa FePublic Health Office 827-3560

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Women’s Health Services Family Care & 988-8869

CounselingCenter www.womenshealthsantafe.org

Suicide

Suicidio

Thousands of young people commit suicide each year. At least400,000 try. Here are some facts to know about suicide:

Suicide is preventable. Most suicide victims do notwant to die.
Substance abuse, especially alcoholism, is stronglyrelated to suicide and suicide attempts.
Individuals with mental disorders are 5 times morelikely to engage in suicidal behavior.
More than 80% of people communicate their desire tocommit suicide before they attempt to do so.

There is no typical suicide victim. We are all capable offeelingoutof control and perceiving our problems or situationsasinescapable.Anyone with suicidal thoughts needs to talk to someone.If youthink youknow someone who is considering suicide, trust yourinstinctsandimmediately report your concern to a teacher, a schoolcounselor,your priestor pastor, your parents, or an adult you trust.This is apotential life ordeath situation. Here are some warning signsof asuicidal person:

Talks about committing suicide
Trouble sleeping and eating
Drastic changes in behavior
Withdraws from friends, and/or social activities
Loses interest in hobbies, school, etc.
Makes out a will or says good-bye to people
Gives away prized possessions
Has tried suicide before
Pre-occupied with death and dying
Loses interest in personal appearance
Has a history of substance abuse
Increased use of alcohol or other drugs
Runs away from home
Becomes involved in criminal behavior

A Suicidal Person May Feel That They Can’t:

Stop the pain
Think clearly
Make decisions
See any way out
Stop the feelings of hopelessness
See future without pain
See themselves as worthwhile
Get someone’s attention

Cope with overwhelming anxiety

If you feel like nobody cares about what happens to you.YOUAREWRONG! Below is a list of people who care about you and wanttohelp.Remember;

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. End the pain,not your life!

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Catholic Charities of SantaFe 424-9789

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

Santa FeCommunity Guidance Center 986-9633

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

Santa FeRape Crisis Center 986-9111

Teen Health Centers SFHS 989-5577

Capital 954-1081

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

Violence

Violencia

Today’s youth in SantaFe have been experiencing an increaseinviolent actsagainst them. They have been victims of homicide,gangviolence, drive-byshootings, domestic violence, sexualassault(rape/date rape), stalking,threat, and other physical abuse.

You do not have to live with intimidation from people whocommitthesetypes of crimes. If any of these things are happening to you orafriend,call one these places right away.

NUMBERS TO CALL:

Ayudantes Inc. 1-888-438-0035

Children, Youth & Families Department 827-7610

Crisis Response of SantaFe 820-6333

Toll free 1-888-920-6333

Esperanza Shelter for Battered Families 473-5200

New Mexico Suicide Intervention Project, Inc. 820-1066

New MexicoYoung Fathers Project (505) 265-5976

Santa FeCounty Youth Development 473-4154

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158

www.ci.santa-fe.nm.us/sfpl

Santa FePublic Health Office 827-3560

Santa Fe Public Schools - Student Wellness

Information and Referrals only 954-2523

TeenCourt ofSanta Fe County 955-5132or

955-5157

Teen Parent Center 954-2451

YouthWorks 989-1855

Youth Shelters and Family Services 983-0586

Entertainment

Diversiones

Center for Contemporary Arts 982-1338

City of Santa FeMonica Roybal Center 955-6751

TeenCenter 955-6860

Greer Garson Theater 473-6511

Museumof New Mexico 827-6463

Randall Davey Audubon Center 983-4609

www.audubon.org

Santa Fe Arts and Culture Portal – event listings www.santafeartsandculture.org

Santa FeBoys & Girls Club 983-6632

Santa FeCommunity College –Planetarium 428-1677

Santa FePerforming Arts 982-7992

Santa FePublic Library 955-6781

Shakespeare in SantaFe 982-2910

Southwest Children’s Theater 984-3055

Warehouse 21 – SantaFe Teen Art Center 989-4423

Movie Theaters CinemaCafe 438-3456

www.cinecafesantafe.com

Jean Cocteau Cinema 988-2711

The Movies – De Vargas Center 988-2775

MallPlan B Cinematheque 982-1338

United Artists North – The Market Place 471-3377

United Artists South – The Market Place 471-6066

Recreation

Actividades Recreativas

Challenge NewMexico 988-7621

City of Santa FeBicentennial Pool 955-4779

Ft.Marcy Complex 955-2500

Genoveva Chavez Community Center 955-4001

Municipal Recreation Center 955-4400

SalvadorPerez Pool 955-2604

Monica Roybal Center 955-6751

TeenCenter 955-6860

Hands on Community Art 955-9768

Randall Davey Audubon Center 983-4609

www.audubon.org

Santa FeBoys & Girls Club 983-6632

Santa Fe Children’s Museum 989-8359

Santa FeFamily YMCA 424-8077

Santa FeMountain Center 983-6158